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Hi,
I am a 17f. Theres this guy I met and have known for several months. He is 18 and he is the absolute sweetest guy ever, which is why I like him. We have hung out a few nights and cuddled a little. The problem is, I know he has another girl that he feels strongly for. He told me about her and hes told me he loves me, but its not the same love that he has for this other girl. Then he tells me later that he just loves me. He also said he wants to kiss me to see if theres 'a spark', I didnt think that would be right so I didnt let him. I dont want to get closer to him, expecially knowing he has another girl. Everyone thinks we are dating and I keep telling them NO WE ARE NOT. I think I really like him, Im just unsure. I think hes unsure as well. He makes me feel like I have never felt before, but I can't help but think that he will end up ditching me or I might find someone better.. you know? I told him we should just be friends..deep inside I want it to be more;I am sure he does too but..yeah. I have never dated before, cuz all the other guys I know are losers and just want sex. I want it to be right. I am not the kind of girl that dates just anybody for the hell of it. Please tell me what you think, Just be friends or.. ? (link)
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i'm going to be blunt. it's not worth it. why do people date? to find the one they're going to spend the rest of their lives with. Chances are, you two aren't getting married. He is not unsure, he has made his feelings clear to you that he loves the other girl. Stick with just being friends. You may really like him but you're 17. i promise you will have plenty more guys. this is just one of many. good luck.
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Thats sorta what I say. I always ask people 'how come people can't just be friends?'.
I don't know about finding good guys,i do not know any at all and I am a little impatient to wait another year, but I know if its not right, then I should be single for that much longer...
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