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Im sixteen years old. Im in high school. I love helping others so ask me anything and I'll give you my true thoughts. :)
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My bf of 4 years told me to take a break about three days ago...i dont understand why he would ask me that bcoz he was the one who messed up..we constanly aruged becoz his girl friends from school kept texting him, and it really bothered me alot..i even cried and told him that i dont appreciate them texting you and he seemed to not do anything about it...so we got into this really deep arugement about the girls texting him....n now he wants a break..i dont understand why he would want to take a break instead of trying to change and work things out for me....He thinks that since we been together for long and wanna get married in the future that its ok for him to take advantage of me and do wat he wants bcoz imma always be with him..idk what to do.....im just really mad that he taking a break with me...
Some times a little break is what both couples need. If you guys were together for four years, I don't think he can just end it like that. He wants a little space probably from all the arguing and fighting and you need it too. He'll start to miss you and you will start to miss him, and then maybe you will get back together, and put all those little arguments away.I do agree though it's pretty stupid if he didn't do anything about the texts when it hurts you so much. Think about this though, if your boyfriend didn't flirt with those girls that texted him then he probably felt attacked when you kept getting mad over it and accusing him of things.But if he was flirting with the girls then you don't need a guy like that anyway.
(Rating: 5) thanks this really help..i know he will miss me =)