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The name is Leah. I live in Cincinnati, OH. I really love to give advice! I have been here since November of 2004. But prior to joining here, I was always been seeked for advice. Still to this day, my primary concern is always helping someone out in need.

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♥Leah

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15/f -i have a boyfriend of 11 months i love him so much but we fight nonstop. some friends ask how i put up with it n my only reason is that i love him. i really dont ever wana loose him but im starting to question a breakup what should i do, if we did breakup itd hurt us both so much but the fightings bringing me back to insanity and i start hallucinating again. but we also have alot of magical moments where we are on top of the world n i cant imagine anything better and were so deep in love were talking about when we have kids and our future. i love him so much but i cant handle the fighting anymore, what shud i do?
i also just started likeing a friend, and i feel so bad to like someone else, but does that mean me n my boyfriend are drifting? my boyfriend makes me cry atleast daily from the fights because he is very insecure n i try my hardest to help him, hes doing bad in school and he doesnt workout or do any kind of sports but is like pro guitarist. my dream guy is a guitarist, in great shape, secure in anything, smart and he is hott. and the guy i like has all of that plus hes 18. i designed his tattoo n he got it n shows me often as he flexs his muscles n smiles. he also sometimes helps me with what to say when me and my boyfriend are fighting. but he is my bestfriends brother, altho they are veryyy close so ther more like friends then siblings n us three went out yesterday and it was pretty sweet we kept flirting but i would stop and say something about my boyfriend to remind us both, but it was an overall best n sweetest time with my bestfriends, i like him, but i love my boyfriend even tho its tearing me up. but im never going to cheat. what do i do??

It seems to me that you are confused. When you and your boyfriend fight, what is it exactly over? Is it over small, dumb things or huge, controversial things? It all varies by your relationship between him and your friend. Yet, you love your boyfriend but all you do is fight. Are things getting resolved? Try fixing things.. talking them out with him. See if anything happens.

It's normal to start having feelings for someone else when your relationship is going bad right now. It seems you need emotional support when you boyfriend is unable to give you that. From saying that, it seems as though your crush has more to offer than your boyfriend.

If you feel the relationship won't work at all, even trying to resolve things, I would go to your crush if it is possible in the future. Try working things out, and if things can't work themselves out chances are he's not meant for you. Your crush seems more like someone who'll treat you better, but I can't measure that based off a few paragraphs.

Try going that route if you'd like. Try fixing things with the boyfriend and maybe the feelings for your crush will go away. If things persist or worsen, your boyfriend and you will likely drift apart emotionally, and you'll go nearer to your crush for the emotional support.

Try doing that, and see if it all works out. If you have any more questions, feel free to send me another message. I'll be here for you every step of the way.

Good luck

Leah

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(Rating: 5) i do all i can to fix it even my bestfriend just takes my phone n tries n she usually can fix anyything but we cant. :/ and wud it be wierd that its her brother altho her other friend dated him before too but bc we always go on double dates me and her and our guys... he also doesnt like his sister dating a guy two years older than her which he is two years older than me to..
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