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So yeah I'm turning 15 soon. I like this guy. He's older than me though. He's 17. I'm friends with his sisters and everything. I think that's why I started liking him in the first place. We've gotten sorta close in being friends. I could tell him anything and could trust him. He tells me to tell him who I like. Heh, I can't exactly do that when its him. First of all, I don't want to ruin the friendship, he's going to be a senior and I don't really want to go out with him. I really like him though. Honestly, I don't want to. But I see him as a good friend. But I like him more than that.
We flirt with each other all the time. But its just little things that don't mean anything. He thinks I'm cute and everything. And that's what gets me. Is there any way I can get over him? Thanks for any help.
You should remind yourself about your age difference. In your teens, that 2 years is a lot. He'll be off to college in a year having new experiences and meeting new people in life totally different from high school. You two would be on 2 different wavelengths. Also, he'll be turning 18 when you're still 15 and i'm pretty sure that's illegal in almost every place. You wouldn't want to get him in trouble.
You have a good friendship, so just enjoy that. There will be other guys. Chemistry like that will happen when a guy and girl are friends a lot. But it's not always worth acting on. Sounds like you treasure the friendship aspect more than anything completely romantic. Leave it at innocent flirting and find a guy closer in age and much more suitable for your situation.
(Rating: 4) Like I said in the question was that I didn't want to be in a relationship with him at all. I just like him. But thanks for trying anyways.