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okay me and my boyfriend had sex twice, were both sixteen. everytime i give him head or something he lasts like a minute before he tells me he is about to cum then we wait a second or two till it goes away and make out or something and when we have sex its like 6 thrusts then he is about to cum or he does cum. how can i help him last longer? i want to get off when we have sex. please i need advice!

First of all, you must know that only a very small percentage of women can reach an orgasm through sexual intercourse. Don't get your hopes up too high. If it happens, great for you. You're in a lucky minority.

If you don't mind him getting you off with oral and his fingers, you can probably work on that. Concentrating on that, foreplay, and getting you off first might be good, then have him do his thing to get himeslf off and you'll both be pleased.

Another tip for him to last longer, have him masturbate and get off by himself earlier in the day (maybe a few hours before you two get together). He will most likely take a little longer to get off when he's with you.

All those tips above should surely help you in the sack. Best of luck and play it safe!

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