Q:
Okay,
I am 23 and my older sister is 29. We never really had a relationship but I have a facebook and I try to get to know her off the site.
My older sister has 3 young children and one on the way and she's also been married for 5 years.
It bothers me because I as well as my parents feel like she sort of disowned us once she had her first child back in 2006. She never visits my mother and rarely has contact with my father...yet alone her and I are almost complete strangers. It hurts me but there is SO much I want to say to her because I am angry that she never even asked me or my younger sister to be her brides maid at her wedding, and she never calls us or even stops by and when I do talk to my older sister on facebook it's almost like she cops an attitude and brushes me off completely and I really want her to know I'm fed up with it etc. but I don't know how to tell her because well again I don't know her and I don't want to come across as the type that dwells on the past plus she is about 7 months along and I don't want to get her too upset.
What should I do?
