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im 14/f.okay so last sunday i gave my bf a bj. and we were texting last night and my parents were pissing me off and i told him and he was calling them names because he knows how mean they are to me. well mom took my phone away and read all the texts and the one about me giving him a bj and shes soo pissed. so on our way home we stop at his house and he had already told his mom what was going on and she said i was no longer allowed at his house because his mom lets us go up to his room alone, and thats wen i gave him the bj.
we were leaving and i could tell he had been crying, and ive never seen him cry in the 3 years ive known him. well he reached out to hug me and mom said no and told me to go he was like please but she woudlnt let me give him a hug.
then she kept my phone so now i cant talk to him or see him till monday!! and its thanksgiving and idk wat to do.
ive been crying all day and mom yells at me if i cry because she says im not hurt in any way. i tried telling her it was my life but she says its not my life till im 18 and i cant make the decision to do stuff like that now.
i dont know what to do about all of this...i need to talk to him it cant wait till monday. but ma wont let me and shes pissing me offf.
i dont know what to say to her, or what to tell my bf on monday...
she said he can still come over here, but if hes here we have to sit in the living room and he can like only put his arm around me no kissing or nething.
what can i say to her?
or to him on monday?? idk if hes mad at me or what, he'll probably blame himself even though its not all his fault...
what do i do??
i think you should give your mom a break ( yea i know that sounds mean and im so sorry). i know you dont wanna hear this but she cares and unless she just absolutely hates you--which i strongly doubt--she is absolutely hurt. youre 14 and doing this stuff--and i dont blame you! youre a teenager (like me) and you wanna try some things and experiment--but that doesnt change that your mom is probaly trying to protect you from getting hurt. maybe shes scared that maybe he would break-up with you since youre giving him what he wants--and by no means am i saying he will! i think you should take her up on the offer and let him come over to your house and gradually youll earn her trust back and then maybe, MAYBE shell let you go on dates with him, etc. be patient and maybe have a nice civilized conversation with your mom and talk about how she feels about it and then tell her what you want to, etc.
i really hope i helped and if you need any more help, leave me a message at mworthy823@yahoo.com.
good luck! =]
(Rating: 5) i know shes trying to help me, but i want to be able to do stuff without her being nosy all the time. its really annoying. im trying to behave and stuff but its really hard.