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I'm really interested in my friend who we'll call J. I've know him for a couple months now, but we only talk in school. He seems interested in me as well. Another friend of mine, who we'll call B, told me not long ago she's starting to like him. She got him to join drama with us, and at drama she hangs all over him. I'm not like that, it's just not me.
He's very smart, and no offense to her, but she's not the brightest bulb. It's a rollercoaster of emotions going from confidence to discouragement. I need some help to say the least.
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Well everyone has moments where they feel discouraged or not good enough. But if B wants to hang all over him, then let her, b/c eventually he will see through it and itll get old. But if you stay true to yourself, most guys do value that. And show him that you are comfortable in your own skin, and that will make him like you more. Also if he doesn't know you like him which I'm assuming he already does, you should just tell him. The only way I can help you is to say I lived it, I had a friend like that, and I stayedtrue to myself and it has made me so happy. I am proud of the person that I am. I have met a couple nice guys who like me b/c I am myself, I don't try to be something I'm not. And I'm proud of you that don't act like something your not. The only way I can help you is to just be yourself, have fun and get to know him, b/c I do believe that things happen for a reason, and if it is meant to be, itll happen. I promise. Just wait and see :)
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