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I am a 17 year old female, out of high school, young mother working at walmart. He is a 19 year old " cowboy type " works at his dads trailor parks all the time. I have strech marks from being pregnant unforantly. We were going to have sex with we have many times before and he wanted me to take my shirt off and i wasn't comfortable with that not yet anyways. well we just sat there and didnt talk he fell asleep. I woke him up and told him to get dressed and i took him home. he left his wallet in my car ( the only reason he called me that night) i gave him the wallet the next day after seeing 3 pictures of girls in his wallet. Once he told me about one picture and told me it was a old friend of his. that day we talked maybe once after dropping it off. then the next day i didnt talk to him until 8 o'clock on my lunch break and i stopped at his house and we talked a little he said he was gonna call me after work and he hasn't called. am i wasting my time with this?? I have a friend whos like my best friend and i sort of have feelings for but its just a "crush" and i can cope with it i mean i really really love my boyfriend a ton.
thanks in advance for your opinions on my situation sorry so long. (link)
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Honestly if what he is doing is upsetting you, like with the pictures of girls in his wallet or not calling you back, then you need to talk to him about it. I don't think you should just dump him. I mean he may not know that something is bothering you unless you speak up and say something. So just talk to him when you both have time. And about not wanting to take your shirt off, no one can force you to do something you aren't comfortable with. Explain to him about how the stretch marks bother you. The longer things go left unsaid the more harder and strained the relationship will feel. Maybe its time for you guys to have a talk, b/c relationships take work, and you guys love eachother so it is def. worth keeping and working out.
Good luck with everything, and congratulations on your child. :)
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thank you alot we talked tonight and everything is going great and he was having some family trouble he told me about he also semi proposed but we dont want to get married for a long while until we no more about each other.
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