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this isnt me, im just wondering, so if you were adopted and you adopted parents adopt another guy, and is it wrong to marry and love him? and he lvoes you back? i mean we're both adopted! (not me) just wondering (link)
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I dont see it as being wrong. The fact is both children that where adpoted would have time to really get to know each other, being able to be around each other all the time. Having the adoption its self in common would bring them closer together just knowing their would share that same history. So even though it was meant to be like a family setting and living situation, does not mean that these two adopted people could not build real or relationship feelings towards each other. My only concerns in a situation such as this is how the adpotive parents themselves my view or react to it once they knew, or found out. Apotive parents my react upset or degusted as any notmral parent might, when viewing them as thier own children. The best thing to do is be honest with the adoptive parents and explain why these two adopted people grew so close together and why they care for each other in the way that they do and how it came about. Once the adpotive parents have time to let what is being said sink in they will have an overall better outlook on it. I myself can understand how easly something like this could happen. It might still be difficult for an adoptive parent or parents to handle though. The adoptive parents could feel quilty for this occuring since it was never something they expected or something they thought might ever happen. So just be honest and be upfront, they have nothing to feel ashamed of or guilty about. I hope this helps, let me know what you think.
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:) thxs i saw the thing in a movie so i was just wondering whats up with that, is it right? so i asked XD so its no biggie:d but thxs! you helped!
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