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This is just a curiosity question. If a woman worked for very powerful men in a large corporation for many years as the powerful men’s secretary but no longer works for them (she hasn’t seen them in 11 years) do you think the powerful men still keeps tabs on her. Keep in mind they were very possessive of her and the bosses either treated her as a sister or a daughter.
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Well if these people looked at her like a sister or a daughter, they might just keep track of her. When people work at any job for any extended period of time part of that work place, can become like a second family. So yes I feel this is something that is very within reason. I myself still have contact with a few people I worked with at one time or another. These people became my friends and when you care about them, the work situation is no longer the issue. So when jobs ends, it does not mean that the friendships or feelings ever stop. So if you where just curious about, if this is something that really happens my answer to you is yes. It happens very often. As far as the former boss or others being possessive, the stronger the bond they had, the stronger the possessiveness will become. It just comes along with having the feelings of a second family. They are not related but yet you cant tell the differance. So I hope this helped you out, let me know what you think...
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