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Q: hello everyone, my fiance' and I got engaged this past summer because we do love each other. He proposed on the beach, but ALL we do is fight. We've been fighting since last january on and off but now we don't even get along. I bought us our own house and we now live together. We always just get into fights and we always cry. I just want our relationship to be happy again. He says I always "bitch" constantly (but he never cleans up after himself and never gives me hardly any affection) He told me recently that the dog treats him better then I do and he hates living with me. I can admit I can be somewhat controlling but it just hurts me that I never get any affection. We're both stubborn and try talking to each other about how we feel but nothing ever changes. Please give me advice about how to make my engagement better before we get married (this april!) I just can't marry someone who verbally abuses me a lot, but I love him, so please don't tell me to leave him! Thanks so much!
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Well, everybody goes through rough patches during their "almost" married life. It's normal. If i were you, I would be the bigger person (even if i didn't start anything) and when he comes home one day, have dinner ready for him, dress up a little, give a really big KISS and compliment him. He can't get mad if you do that. Then you will start getting along better. Don't give up, your just going through a stressful time right now! Have faith!!
Good luck!! Hope this helps!
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thanks for answering, I gave you a 5, but no matter how much I dress up or do anything for him, I never get any attention back. He never tells me how pretty I look or anything. Love just sucks. Well thanks so much! Take care!
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Hey Everyone! I am on the computer a lot and if you and questions or concerns, you can send me a message here on advicenators and i will answer as quickley as possible. I give honest answers but am not to harsh on people. You can ask me any kind of question and i will answer it! Ask away! Thanks!
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Website: Member Since: October 23, 2006 Answers: 383 Last Update: December 30, 2011 Visitors: 22112
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