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17/f. I am "talking to"/dating this great guy. We're not official yet because we're getting to know each other better. Anyway, he is so freaking nice to me. We went on a date, and he picked me up, opened every door for me (car doors included), paid for everything, met my parents, and he even insisted on programming my home address into his GPS so I wouldn't have to sit there and tell him where to go (so we would have more time to actually talk). He's just such an outstanding guy... and I feel like he's doing all the giving and I'm doing all the taking. I want to show him that I'm as interested in him as he is in me. Any suggestions? Nothing sexual please. (link)
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You can start by giving him a lot of attention. Be interested (genuinely) in what he has to say and always welcome his phone calls or text msges. When you're talking to him, you can pretend tt the surrounding is really noisy, go near him and speak into his ear. Or you could lightly touch his arm when you're laughing, or when he's walking in the wrong direction, you can guide him by hooking his arm or just holding it with your hands.
Alternatively, if you're daring enough, you could hint to him. Because sometimes, guys like you, but they just don't dare to tell it to you because he isnt getting any positive signals yet.But from my experience, hinting is really good because it is sort of like a stepping stone and it gives guys the courage to tell you bout their feelings.
Just a little side point: Dress up a little more to get his attention. Dress a little more, but not too revealing, yet don't look like you're trying too hard. Dun spend the whole day thinking bout whether your hair is messy or not. Wear wat I'd call hassle-free clothes: clothes that doesn't require you to constantly adjust.
Most importantly, just relax and be how you are around him. He apparently likes the way you are now so don't go changing tt. Lastly, Smile! Guys like girls to smile and be naturally cheerful. Just have a great time around him, and be yourself =)
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