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so i was with my friends at the mall like 2-3 weeks ago. we were just following people around for the fun of it. so we saw these two hot guys who looked about our age and we followed them into this store. they were like playing with these things and i just go up to them and start playing with them too.( we decided to make ourselves look kinda creepy. haha) and like everytime the hotter one would turn around i'd be in his face. haha
but like i asked for his number and he gave it to me. and like 2 hours late (i had been texting him)
he called me to make sure it was me and was like i think your hott. when are we gonna make love (i know he was kidding. haha)
and we texted like the rest of that night.
i was like i'm gonna fail this paper. he was like i think you deserve a 100 for whatever you do.
and little things like that.
so we texted each other for a week. then he just kinda stopped texting me. but then when it came around to the weekends he would text me being like you wanna hang out? and coincidentally i had already made plans. for like 2 weeks in a row.
but he texts me and stuff saying things like:
hey babe.
yeah babe only for you.
and he even asked me if i was prude and i was like kinda. and he was like well maybe as i get to know you better we can change that.
i know you already hun.
and we talk on myspace and stuff and he is like babe and honay. and stuff like that.
i don't know. and he started not to really reply to me. and i kinda like him...i don't know. hes in highschool and i'm in eighth grade. but hes a freshman.
but like he wouldn't reply so i was like do you wanna hang out this weekend. and he was like yes. that would be cool.
so now we're gonna like hang out.
but do you think he likes me?
i don't know. i mean he doesn't have to text me like all the time but it seems he only talks to me if i talk to him first. i DON'T like making all the moves. i don't even know. i've never been in a relationship before. i have no idea what i'm even doing. i just want advice. haha

Its kind of hard to say. Freshman are a different type of breed haha. But from what it sounds like, he probably does like you. But don't rush into things and don't let yourself fall too hard (I found this out the hard way). Perhaps he's busy or that maybe he's talking to other girls (and there's nothing wrong with that, both of you are technically single)...this is why I say don't fall too hard. There's nothing wrong about hanging out with him (with friends or one on one).
If I were in your shoes, I would hang out with him. This gives you the chance to get to know him better in person, what he's like as a date, etc.
If there is one piece of advice you take from me, please let it be this: do not move too fast. The part where you said you're a prude, you're not a prude. Hopefully you just have morals and don't do anything you'd regret if say, the two of you didn't work out. But you can still have fun and hang out.

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i forgot to put in here that he has picture with this other girl on his myspace. like shes showing her thong and he's shirtless. i don't really care about it though. someone told me it was his sister. i still don't care though. ahah thought i'd just put that out there.
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