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I'm 16 years old and a junior in high school. I like giving advice so feel free to ask me any questions. Everybody has been through different situations and I could try and help you by what I've gone through. Ask away :)
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So it seems like latley, instead of worrying about school ( which i am.) I'm worrying about my Ex-BFF.

We drifted apart this summer.
Like; No talking at ALL- which i really dont know what happened..

Maggie (exbff) and me alllways hung out. We were such good friends. Lets say we werrre attached by the shoulders.

But, this summer; I kind of got fed up with her. How much she changed. I can't stand it, I meen I see her on myspace and I hear about her from my other bestfriend ( who hangs out with maggie more then I do. ALOT MORE) and I get ... annoyed? In a way I want to be still friends with her, but then I see her and I'm like " UGH!" . I dont know it's so confusing! And now that school is going to start, I really dont know what to do. I'm mad because we drifted apart, and I'm mad at her for that. I meen she goes across the street to my other friends house, and never comes and sees what I'm up to?


okay so, yeah I dont know exactly what I'm feeling- that's where the confusing part comes in.

But I need help with how to deal with it in school. How much shes changed with her new "bff" and how to show her that I've been GREAT without her, instead of talking about the stupid Old times. you know what I meen? even though I have been great.

But Not seeing her this summer took a whole load off; lets just say I was STRESS FREE! ahha.
So yeah- things do happen for a reason; I became much better friends with my other friends who I hang out with mostly everyday..

Now to deal with it in school 24/7; help? (link)
Forget about her. Thats how my old friend and I was. I mean we are still friends but we are not as close as we use to be. The only way to show her that you have been great is to find new people. It will show if you are happy with them. She will notice. People change, there isn't much you can do about that. Another thing to do is to talk to her about it. Maybe she will see what is going on. She may not realize it because she found another friend which is not bad at all. But she could be excited about that and so caught up in what they do. But if things don't work out try not to start fighting. Maybe just say hi walking by her. But try to make some new friends. Don't hold a grudge either. I've been through that and you don't want to be there. So don't be mean about it just work it out and if not just be friends. And find some new friends. Good luck!


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