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i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP
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I think it might not be the best idea. To do that might make you gain even more feelings for him and feel even more attached, which would just make the break up even harder. Having sex is a big step to take and a big choice to make, and I feel if you're really serious about this you might have to be more than just "ok" with it. In the end the decision is up to you, obviously, but you have to be alright with not seeing him after, which is difficult in any case esp. if it's your first time. Also if you already feel like you might regret it, it could be your subconscious trying to tell you something. If he's sure that you guys cant see each other after he moves, then it might be the best option to not make that big step with him so soon before he leaves.
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i think ill have to agree with that....thank you so much
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