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Q: PART 1:
Okay so there WAS this guy. But then i realized that he is not the type of guy i want to be with because he was a jerk at some points. But i just realized this morning. And he is friends with my 12 year old brother. MY 12 YEAR OLD BROTHER MADE OUT WITH AN OLDER GIRL AT THE FAIR!! Im sorry but i think that this boy is a bad influence. My brother does not need to be doing things like this at such a young age...am i wrong for thinking this?? How would you feel??
PART 2:
And another thing. There was this boy CJ that was a senior that i could have "had" but he had a girlfriend, so i kept my mouth shut. And he liked me and i liked him, but i knew he liked me. He didnt know about me. But i didnt want to screw up his relationship. But now im thinking, it could have been love, would have been love, but wont be because i screwed up. To say i regret it is an understatement. I figured if i messed with the guy in part one the regret and feelings would go away. WRONG! And now he is at college. or going to it at least. But i dont know what to do about this. I hardly ever see him, but when i do, we sort of have a "moment". Like he will stare at me as if i am the only thing in the world, and its like something explodes inside of me everytime i see him. I dont know if this is love, like, lust, or what...can you help me with that and my regret?? and what should i do??
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Part 1- Yes, i think this boy is bad news. He is a bad influence especially on your brother who made out with an older girl. I agree with you there.
Part 2- Maybe because that one boy you had in part one didn't treat you right, you want someone who will and you think that is CJ. I agree with you about not saying anything because he has a girlfriend. I can see why. Just hold on until he dumps his girlfriend because if he likes you, then he would dump his girlfriend for you, if he dosen't then he might not really like you. If you think he is a good guy and you want to be with him, i would wait to tell him after his relationship is over to tell him or let him know your feelings. I'm sorry your having trouble with this...i am trying to give you the best advice i can but this is a really hard situation. If you have any other questions or need advice just slip it into my inbox! Hope this helps and Good luck!
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it helps. I just like having someone to talk to about it because none of my friends really help me and they always try to switch conversations...thank you
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Hey Everyone! I am on the computer a lot and if you and questions or concerns, you can send me a message here on advicenators and i will answer as quickley as possible. I give honest answers but am not to harsh on people. You can ask me any kind of question and i will answer it! Ask away! Thanks!
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Website: Member Since: October 23, 2006 Answers: 383 Last Update: December 30, 2011 Visitors: 22137
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