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almost 16 female.

I like more than one guy. 5 to be exact. and if one of them asked me out, i would go out with any of them. but heres the thing, my friends say that im too shy and that i should make the first move. (btw im not even friends with any of these guys) so all of my friends say that i should send them an IM and be like hey whats up. now im really desperate for a boyfriend so i dont know if i should first be friends with all of these guys and see who makes a move first or just go for one guy and play hard to get.

or should i even play hard to get? because im so desperate and i was thinking maybe i should just straight out tell one of the guys that i really like him... what do you all think?? help!

whatever you do dont let all of them know that you like them. and yea you should make the first move--the IM idea is great. dont necessarily be friend friends (you know what i mean ?) but be "buddies". dont play toooo hard to get and dont let them know that youre desperate.this is gonna sound silly but just do it--it works! get out 5 sheets of paper. now write down their names. list everyones bad qualities. now cross out the 2 name with the most bad qualities. now for the remaining 3 list all the good qualities and try to make a move on the top guy (the one with the most good qualities). if you find out he doesnt like you, make move on the next one, etc.
i really hope i helped! ive tried this and it works trust me ! l0l =]

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(Rating: 5) that 5 piece of paper method actually sounds like it might work. thanks

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