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15/f
I'm really good friends with this guy. I love him to death (purely platonic) and he always knows just what to say to make me feel better.
Well lately though, I've noticed that he's been more distant. I'll instant message him, and it will take him twenty minutes to respond when usually he'll always IM me the second I sign online. I'll call him and he'll have to go within five minutes versus usually we'll talk for hours it seems. Same with talking in person.
We are both generally shy and quiet people but when we're together we are close and open with each other...just not so much anymore.
(I'm not being annoying about talking to him by the way. I don't IM or call him constantly every five minutes then wonder why he has to go so quickly. I only try talking to him a few times a week.)
We went to hang out at the beach together a few weeks ago, and the days leading up to that he would talk to me all the time telling me how excited he was. But then after that, nothing.
I worry sometimes that maybe he just thinks I'm too young and silly to hang out with (he's two years older than me). It's so frustrating because I am not immature.
I just don't know why he's acting so distant. I don't want to lose him as a friend, that would crush me.

he probaly has feelings for you. think about it: you guys went to the beach he saw how good you looked in your bikini/bathing suit and totally fell in love with you. or something close to that anyways. l0l

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(Rating: 3) Um no. I sure hope he's not just in love with me because he thinks I look good in a bathing suit.

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