Hi I'm Jeannie.I would love to help you with any questions you may have, so feel free to ask, no question I would ever consider stupid or embarassing so don't worry. Also, I am a college student, and I have been through a few things, so if you would like my opinion just ask, if not then please specify. And remember that you are beautiful no matter what you feel or what you are going through. :)
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all of my relatives have had and lived or are living with or died of cancer. iv been to so many funerals an i hate myself cause i can't even cry at them i think its not use. iv ben dealing with it my whole life but i just don't know what to do anymore its crushing me. now my mom thinks i may have cancerous mole but she doesnt wana scare me cause iv been having an extremely hard time lately. i also have a brown bump on my nipple.. iv had it for a very long time but its just getting bigger little by little n its kinda freakin me out. is that cancer to? what do i do, i really don't wana go to the hospital, for many reasons, one being i kinda ben skipping it bc theyve ben doing all these different testings on me but not having to do with cancer. i dont wana go back for one that they go in and look threw me, they did alot of blood and weird rays tests. idk what to even think or do anymore but i dont wana go. :( btw im 14 female (link)
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I understand why you don't want to go to the doctors, but seriously you need to get that mole checked out. I mean if cancer runs in your family you want to be safe and not sorry. I don't blame you for not wanting to go, believe me I understand. But if comes down to being scared for a little while or your life, I'm guessing you would choose to be scared instead. I mean your life is too important to blow it off by not checking something that could turn out to be nothing.
And about not crying, don't you dare feel bad about that or hate yourself. We all handle grief differently. You should not feel bad whatsoever because of it. Some people laugh when their grieving some get serious and some cry. We are different so we handle it differently, just remember that.
I'm sorry that you have had to deal with funerals and stuff like that. I hate to say it, but it really prepares you for the future, the older you get the more you experience it unfortunately.
Lastly, stand tall, you are a strong person, who has been through alot in her 14 years, you have no reason to be ashamed. But i bet those funerals, remind you how short life is right? Everything will be fine, just have faith. And please get the mole checked!
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thank you soo much
i used to be suicideal n have so many problems but i deny it to the doctors if i go back their gona do the deep tests on me again i cant take that how do i say noo :(
but thank you soo much i didnt know im even worth that much
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