mandyx3's advice column

I have a friend who recently experienced this problem and I don't know what kind of advice to give her. Her and her bf (of a few years) got into a fight. He called her a bad name (c___), she smacked him and he smacked her back (she said it was pretty hard but that he told her he did it by accident kind of a reaction or something).. He's never hit her before nor does he seem like that kind of guy to me. She's not sure if this should be a big deal to her and while I normally say you should never stay with a man who hits you she did hit him first. What should I tell her? =/

okk to start off with, i dont think that it is acceptable to be called a c___ by your boyfriend. i think that it is just horrible. okk next. no matter what the excuse, in my opinion, it is never okk for a guy to hit a girl. she hit him because he called her a horrible name. he just retaliated. that is not right. and making up excuses such as, "it was just a reaction, i didnt mean to..." is just an excuse and a lie. im sorry, but i wouldnt stay with him.
if she does decide to stay with him, he better PROVE to her that he'll never do it again. it really is not acceptable for a guy to hit a girl, and he needs to know that. so if she does decide to stay with him, make sure he knows what he did was wroong and if it happens again, the relationship is over.
i hope this helps your friend and tell me how it goes =]]

[view]

(Rating: 5) thank you, i hope our advice will help her

<<< Previous Advice Column

Next Advice Column >>>