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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??
To be honest, I don't think what you're doing is that bad.
I mean it is, but hey, do what you gotta do.
However, if you arn't starving, have a roof over your head, and clothing, your good. Cell phones are pretty much a a materialistic item. You don't really need it. They still do have pay phones in many areas. I'm sure you have friends that have cell phones.
I think you need to tell your boyfriend whats up. I think you need to talk to him in person, and explain to him, what your doing. I don't think he'll be happy with it, honestly. But, if you don't tell him, hes gonna lose all of his trust from you, and thats not good.
I personally, think that you should stop sending this guy pictures, if your eating, have clothing, and shelter. Which, I have a feeling you do..if you have a computer & such. But, if you feel that your cell phone is something that you absolutely cannot live without, then.. hmm. its your decision. If it was me, and I wanted like money, because I was extremely poor and hardly ever getting food, and living in a box, I'd do it. But, I'm guessing, thats not how you live.
Its not good to have him pay your cell phone bill, because that probably means he knows your address, and everything. You should of had him send you cash to a PO box... but its too late for that now. How did you find this guy anyways?
I sincerly hope that everything works out for you, and you do whats best for you.
(Rating: 5) i dont have a computer lol.. mobile internet. as well as me having virgin mobile, so all he does is text me a code - no info exchange whatsoever :) i do have clothes, (from when richass dad was in the picture,) thank good, and food, but not a roof for long.. and its not like ive been lazy.. ive been looking for a job everywhere, and FINNALLY freakin found one, thank god :) but i have to help pay bills n stuff now, so yea. plus theres no payfones in the middle of the countryside..haha. i know what i was doing was pretty bad, and i feel bad about doing it, but hey, like you said, do what you gotta do right? thank you so much, everyone else just basically called me a whore lol..which im not. you really helped, though. thank you!! :)