phatdopelove's advice column

Ok, so i've liked a lot of guys in my life, but I have done NOTHING with any of them does that make me a slut? If I liked so many guys? ...
I mean alot of them i found out are friends w/the guys i used to like and some of them get mad and call me a slut. When I have done nothing with any guy, I'm just the kind of girl who moves on quickly if it doesn't work out between me and a guy, is that wrong?
Some guys ask me sexual questions and i answer but does that make me a slut, when i still haven't done anything with a guy? I've only made out with guys but i have not yet went past that yet. So does that make me a slut? and how do i deal with these guys?

I am in the same boat as you, and no that doesn't make you a slut at all and just let people assume what they want, only you would know. They're not you, and you know whats true and whats not. So let them talk their shit, they just looking for something to talk about.

And maybe some of the guys are mad that you like their friends but you didn't do anything with them right?Just keep your head up, don't listen to what the guys are saying about you and if they ask you those questions it should be none of their buisness, try not to answer next time cause it'll only make you look promiscuous if you do answer, don't make the same mistake I did. It's none of their buisness and trust me , if you don't make it big and show others it bothers you, it'll die down and they'll bother someone else.

Hope I helped! ;)

[view]

(Rating: 5) thanks much your right it is none of their business ,:)

<<< Previous Advice Column

Next Advice Column >>>

humorist-workshop