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I HAVE A STALKER!!!!!!! EWWW!!! STALKER NEEDS TO STOP VIEWING MY PAGE AND STOP TRYING TO BE LIKE ME, YOU'RE NOT!!!!!!!!H0MEWRECKERRRRR!!
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Okay so I have a boyfriend who recently hit his mom..Okay more like bruised it up.. and he might be heading for boot camp this summer. and he threw a plazma Big screen tv at his 12 yr, brother.
he says his brother was throwing a chair at him though. few months ago he got sent to his dads cause he did somehting wrong then him and his dad got in a fist fight.. he says he "Beat the s*** out of him" which isnt all that good sense he got searched, hand cuffed and taken down to the police station.. should i be worried? hes not abbusive right? just a temper?
That is physical abuse, and he is abusive. You indicated that he threw a PLASMA at his brother? Yeah, he is abusive no doubt.
And just because his brother MAY HAVE did it to him doesn't give him a right to throw such a LARGE object.
It seems that your boyfriend lives in a violent home, all his familty that are in the house can be a threat to you. Just imagine, you might think that he won't do that to you because 'he loves you' and your his g/f. But being violent like that?
JUST THINK and IMAGINE, if you say one 'wrong' thing or if you offend him in any way, he'll take a blow to your face. You don't want to get into a relationship like that, many girls have done that and they feel that they can't leave but you can. LET HIM GO. It's scary but girls/women have died in abusive relationships. It's the truth think about that.
Just let him down easily, say something like 'I think we should just be friends' and if he asks you why say you're busy or something like that.
Just be careful.
You can find someone better than him. SERIOUSLY, you may think that is hard but its really not. If you continue with this relationship it will only get worse and most likely you'll be unhappy and worried to leave. Break it off now.
Ask yourself this question.
You don't want to be with someone who makes you worry and wonder whether he's going to physically hurt you do you? ... or be with someone whos going to jail getting in trouble and make you worry.
Be with someone who isnt going to make you worry; and this guy will make you worry all the time. Be with someone who has a happy lifestyle who HASNT been to jail for drugs or alcohol or abuse. You want someone to make you happy NOT worry; I KNOW THAT FOR A FACT.
Hope I helped.
Hope I helped.
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