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Hey! f/15! [:

well i '[think] i like this boy.
i don't really know him much tho.
i know him but i dont -cause he use
to be one of my real good friends; but he
has changed alot since then.

well anyways i see him every weekend' & we flirt [alottt!] but if hes not flirting with me its my bestfriend or another girl. hes all over every other girl; last weekend it was some girl it was a new girl blah & my best friend likes him as well idk its confusing; and i think about him like too much for my own good' i dont wanna start to like him like alot either it's just heppening
it's kinda like my feelsing are takin over my mind? im not sure what this is but he *$&@_*(&@
blah i can't stop thinking about him what should i do? what would you do -xoxo.

Well first of all - take a deep breath. Listen to some music. Calm down a bit.

It's okay to start liking someone you don't want to like - it happens. Sometimes the guy ends up surprising you, sometimes you get disappointed. But eventually, when you can't stop thinking about him, it's like you might as well just go for it, because he's all you're thinking about anyway.

You have a choice here - you either go for it or you back off completely (by that I mean stop being around him). If you try to back off but keep talking to him, you'll end up falling for him inevitably. Pretty much you'd end up like you are now.

Personally I'd say to go for it. It's okay to find yourself going crazy thinking about someone - and pretty normal, actually. Stick around and make it clear to him that YOU LIKE HIM. He could end up with some other girl that he is all over, but you might as well go for it, so that in case that happens, you'll know you gave it your best shot.

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(Rating: 5) oh wow. -THANK YOU SO MUCH!
i told myself today whatever advice i get from this i'm going to do it and i'm going too give it a shot; thank you like soo much :] i don't understand why thay only let me rate you five you should get at lest a 100 :] but honestly thank you & thank you for taking the time you help me with this

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