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I was with this guy for like 2 days and then we broke up It has been 5 months and i still like him harder and harder I would so give my virginity to him and I cant stop thinking of him we might/were going to get back together and I was really happy everythime someone tell me something about him I get nervous to if it is going to be bad or good I want to talk about him all the time but I think my friends get tired of it...I dont talk to him much just hi and bye but I heard from a really close friend of both of ours that he likes me I cry for him all the time...I think I love him can this be love...Ps almost eveerthing I do is around him from school to clothes and I dont want to live without him
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Are you in love? This really depends on your idea of love. If you are of the school of mind that you could love someone just by seeing them then yes, possibly you are in love. If you believe that you have to actually know someone to love them, well,you would seem to have more of an intense, intense infatuation.
The truth about liking someone that you don't really know is that it's very easy to fall in love with the idea of them. Think about it. If you don't actually know the person, a lot of your ideas about what this guy is like comes from your own obsessive imagination.
Making up from a break up does happen, but realistically, they would happen sooner than five months later, if at all. It's probably tough for you right now to think about forgetting about him, but you would be so so much happier if you did. Seriously. You could be selfish again! Imagine being able to not cry over him, to make decisions about clothes and school that will ultimately benefit you!
Tell yourself right now that you are obsessing, and do as much as you can to force yourself to have fun and to not think about him. Eat cake. Go watch a movie. Stop talking about him and trying to be around him.
You can't be with someone you idolize. Think of how much happier you'd be not worrying about all this, potentially feeling actual love for a guy who feels the same way about you.
(Rating: 4) thanks the truth hurts...lol