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my bf and i have had 'dry sex' but only for a short amount of time and not even rubbing all that much like i rubbed up on him but his penis wasnt like on my or pushing up against me and only for like a min or two or w/e so is it bad? cause its kinda the movements of sex and we havent been dating long and im really catious but when we did it i didnt even know it was dry sex and i liked it but it totally didnt seem that bad to me or that sexual. thanx for the help :)

Only your own comfort level can judge whether it was good, bad, right, or wrong. The rest is just everyone else's opinion.

If it was an accident, know that it's very normal. If your making out on top/underneath someone, it's quite likely that someone will shift or move, causing that lovely friction that you have described. In your case, calling it dry humping or dry sex would probably be a stretch, considering that people who do dry hump usually have the objective of grinding their pelvises together in some way.

Making out on top of each other, and having people move around in that position isn't really considered to be that "extreme" or "sexual". I mean, sure, there is something of that quality about it, but if you were to put it on the whole base system (one =kissing, home plate=sex), it's still first base stuff.

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(Rating: 5) thanx!! great advice! :] very helpful
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