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i like this guy thats in 10th grade and im in 8th, i like him alot and i recently told him i feel and all he said was you like me? and ever since that he flirts with me constantly, does he like me or is he just trying to lead me on? im kidna confused. and since were in diffrent schools it would be pretty hard to go out with him, so, is it worth a try? how do i know if he really likes me? and also
does anyone have any quotes for a situation like this?
thanks.
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Now for the rest of your question. He could like you, be leading you on, or it could be a bit of both. Remember that guys of this age, and of any age really, aren't ever too black and white about how they feel about things. I doubt that he's thinking in his head "alright! She likes me so I'm going to lead her on for as long as possible for no reason!". Likely, you liking him makes him feel curious and flattered, so he's flirting with you to try it out.
It probably is worth a try if he flirts back with you. Just IM him a few times to get a conversation going, and ask if he'd be interested in going out to the mall/ coffee shop/ park with you. If you're worried about awkwardness, you can organize a group event and invite him along.
You probably won't be able to tell if he "really likes" you unless you lead him on yourself a bit, so to speak. Hang out with him, get to know him, flirt back, and see how things go. Take it slow and don't make dating him a huge deal, but make it clear that you like him and wouldn't mind seeing more of him, or dating him to see how it goes.
(Rating: 5) thanks, that makes alot of sense.