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Me and this guy have been talking for 2 years. We are completely in love with each other. He loves me and i love him. Though heres the catch. and like dont think bad things of me because of this but. We met over the internet and he is suppose to come see me this spring break for the first time which is like a month and 15 days away. and of course we both cant wait because we want to hold each other and all that good stuff. He even told me i had to jump into his arms when we meet because that would make him so happy. But like for the past 4-5 months he hasnt called me at all except 4 times inbetween all that time. I dont really understand why and i ask him and all he says is i dont know and it drives me crazy because i want to hear his voice. All we do is text and talk on msn. Our relationship is fine but i want to know why he doesnt call me. I remember when he use to call me at least once a day. So why does he not call me anymore when he use to call me almost every day? Any ideas why?
Have you asked him why?
Seriously, there are a load of reasons why he may not be calling you as often: long distance charges, he knows you'll get to meet soon-ish anyway, he's nervous about meeting you since you met on the internet, ect.. If he hasn't been messaging you as well, then I might be a bit worried. If you haven't already, tell him what you wrote here, that you miss him, so why hasn't he called?
I won't judge you for meeting him online, but I will say to watch out, because it is true that he could be anyone. My advice would be, when you do meet him for the first time, don't go alone. Seriously. It doesn't have to be a big deal, just bring along, say, a close friend, and they can leave once you know that the guy is the age he says he is, ect.. As well, before you meet him, tell someone else the location of your meeting place, in case anything happens. Never hurts to be too careful =]
Hopefully this will straighten out by the time you see him next.
(Rating: 5) Im not all that worried about meeting him. we have done wedbcam before and we talk all the time. so im pretty sure he isnt anyone else lol but thanks for the advice.