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well i have a boyfriend , but everyone says i just have a " flirty " personality . and people say i flirt when i dont even notice it. My boyfriends friends are all really hot but i mean i know where to draw the line at ya know . but i just dont want my boyfriend to get mad , we been dating for almost a year though , but i guess i flirt with alotta peoplE ? people say its just my peppy personality

any advice on how to like stop ? or catch my self

It's probably not a problem if your boyfriend hasn't said anything about it. If you're concerned, you should probably being up the subject with your boyfriend, saying something like "So I know sometimes I may seem kind of flirty with my guy friends... does this bug you?" Talking it over with him is probably a lot easier to do than changing your personality, in any case.

If you would like to stop your flirtiness, a good thing to do would be to watch yourself generally and figure out what makes you more flirty. Then, you know what things to stop doing. Ie, you act flirty by touching them when you talk... so then the next time you see your guy friends you just make an effort not to touch them or whatnot.

I wouldn't worry about it, though. As long as the flirting isn't serious you're fine.

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(Rating: 5) thnks .
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