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VISIT MY WEBSITE AT http://www.freewebs.com/abl90/index.htm !!!Hello. My name is Ashley. I am 17 years old with 2 sisters and 3 half sisters.. I love giving advice. All my friends come to me with their problems. I'm almost ALWAYS right when it comes to advice. Unfortunately, that does not include myself. If I have a problem, I'm usually clueless so I may have a few questions here and there but mostly I'm here for the readers. Hopefully someday I can be an advice columnist for a newpaper.
Please take the time to read, it can help a few of you:
So far my life has been really complicated, sure, I do have a great life, an amazing fiance, a wonderful chihuahua, yes she is my baby, and a pretty good family I suppose. In reality, I guess most everyone has a complicated life. In my life, I have been in the most depressed state to where I literally wanted to kill myself, but it never came down to it, it is all a test, not for anyone else but for ourselves, to see how strong we are, we all have hardships in our lives but we have to look at the good and remember that there ARE people who care about us, no matter how down we are. All of you can live a good, happy life, you just have to try and give it your all and remember you bring your own happiness.
For those who have LOST:
I have lost only one person in my life.. My brother, he was only my half brother, and I never knew him. He died at 47, he had 3 amazing sons who had a great life going for them and a beautiful wife. He killed himself on October 21 of 2004. I regret every single day that I didn't know him, nor did I try, I blame myself even though I shouldn't, that route goes both ways. Sure I could have tried to see him, but he could have to. The thing is, you should try with everything in you to know your family and to love them. I would give up a lot to see my brother for one minute to ask him why? Would didn't he think about anyone else but himself? And now I'll never get that chance. I went against God and all my beliefs and even tried to contact him through a Ouija. God forgave me but I didn't forgive myself. I just hope with all my heart that he forgave my brother as well.
Thank you everyone.
If you ever need help, feel free to contact me at skyyisbloo@aol.com and please title the e-mail as Advicenators advice and I will try to get back to you ASAP.
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okkay. me and my x boyfriend went out for like 5 months in 7th grade and like 3 months in 8th grade. i still like him a lot and cant ever stop thinking about him. everytime i go on his myspace and hes talking to his x.girl friends or just friends that are girls, that i dont know i get so madd and sad and jelous. and i cant seem to stop caring or even stop thinking about it. its like im obbsesive and i cant or dont want to stop likeing him. he flirts with me a lot in 7th and 8th period but its not just me its my other back and forth friend. im pretty sure she likes him its pretty obvious. his personality is like that to and when he does flirt. im not even sure if he is or not. cause of the way he just is. but i dont want to even act like it bothers me cause i dont want him to think i stilll like him that much. and he just playy around with my emotions. but people always say you can tell he "sometimes" only does it to make me mad. i dont want to stop likeing him. but im pretty sure he doesnt like me or not as much anymore. so i dont want to waste my time. but at the same time i think hes worth it. (:
so i need advice about
how to deal with this kind
of situation.
thanks in advancee.
The best advice I could possibly give to you is to move on. It maybe be hard but you definitely can. Turn the tables around on him, make him jealous by doing just the same but be better and don't waste your time dating him again. You should try to find you someone who respects you are doesn't flirt with your friend, by the way, drop this 'friend' for good and tell her off for being such a lousy person, friends don't do that to friends.
As you said, you think he is worth it, but believe me, he is not. I've been with plenty who are just like him and it's not worth the heartache.
I hope this helped and if you need anything else just check out my column and message me. If you have the time, please rate my advice, I'm trying to widen my column with a good rating so I can help more people.
ABL
(Rating: 5) wow. thanks that helped
me alott ! (: