okkay. me and my x boyfriend went out for like 5 months in 7th grade and like 3 months in 8th grade. i still like him a lot and cant ever stop thinking about him. everytime i go on his myspace and hes talking to his x.girl friends or just friends that are girls, that i dont know i get so madd and sad and jelous. and i cant seem to stop caring or even stop thinking about it. its like im obbsesive and i cant or dont want to stop likeing him. he flirts with me a lot in 7th and 8th period but its not just me its my other back and forth friend. im pretty sure she likes him its pretty obvious. his personality is like that to and when he does flirt. im not even sure if he is or not. cause of the way he just is. but i dont want to even act like it bothers me cause i dont want him to think i stilll like him that much. and he just playy around with my emotions. but people always say you can tell he "sometimes" only does it to make me mad. i dont want to stop likeing him. but im pretty sure he doesnt like me or not as much anymore. so i dont want to waste my time. but at the same time i think hes worth it. (:
so i need advice about
how to deal with this kind
of situation.
thanks in advancee.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceforlife answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 12:15 pm: The best advice I could possibly give to you is to move on. It maybe be hard but you definitely can. Turn the tables around on him, make him jealous by doing just the same but be better and don't waste your time dating him again. You should try to find you someone who respects you are doesn't flirt with your friend, by the way, drop this 'friend' for good and tell her off for being such a lousy person, friends don't do that to friends.
As you said, you think he is worth it, but believe me, he is not. I've been with plenty who are just like him and it's not worth the heartache.
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greenygie answered Tuesday January 22 2008, 9:36 pm: my god very playboy,if I where you I don't waste my time caring about him.He acts like that because he knows that every guy he flirted will fall for him so its better quit on loving him.He does not deserve it. [ greenygie's advice column | Ask greenygie A Question ]
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