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ok, well here's what i'm confused about.
i'm 18 and a girl. i'm senior and in love with this guy so much. his name's Vinny. well we've known each other since last year. he was in my english class. we never nearly talked at all. but in the middle of the year towards the end we started talking alot getting to know each other a bit. :)
and i had a majorily crush on him. until one day i saw him with a girl making out in the hallway. so i figured he had a gf and he did.
now it's senior year and he is two of my classes. english again and food class. we talk alot in enlgish he flirts with me a bit i flirt back. but i can't tell which is which like.
he plays with my hair, he gives me kissy faces i can't explain tat though ahah, he asks for gum all the time and i give it to him. ahh, i always have gum with me, dont know y i do but i care.
he even asked me one time either on monday or tuesday he asked me who did i like.
he wanted to find out but i kept playing with him and saying i like someone else. then he says do you like him or him or him, he was namin the guys in my classroom. so i said no i like someone and you should know. that is a clue saying i like him. but apperatnly he didn't get it. but one time he almost got mad when i told him i liked someone but he didn't know i like him.
so i asked him dont worry i like you and he was like i hate you but we joke around alot so i know he doesn't mean that because at the end we both laugh about it.
then he was like i always wonder why "nick" this other kid i'm friends with hates you. and i laugh so hard about it saying because i always bitch at him and its true Vinny knows that to.
but i couldn't tell why he even asked me that. he never does. and plus we have so much in common we dont hang out much at all never out side of school but during only.
i even touch him sometimes like on his arm or be like oh vinny your so funny ahah. but i mean i know it seemed that i flirt with him.
but like i said that boy is so hard to figure out wether or not he likes me.
because one thing is he had a girlfriend for four years and they broke up. it's been two month now. and if i tell him it would be hard for me because i know how hard it was for him that HIS girlfriend of four years broke up with him.
so my question to you. i like him so much i get so nervous around him sometimes but i'm so comfortable around him. its like when we talk we talk nonestop aha. so what do i do? how can i tell if he really likes me, one thing is i know he mite not even be interst in be but that's something else. the other thing is should i tell him my feelings? if so how? he's only in two of my classes. sometimes it's hard to talk to him alone. people are usually around him most of the time.
please help me, what should i do. he's so cute and i just want to be with him so much, he means so much to me. i can't stop thinking about him. i'm not going to lose or forget about him. i want to try.
SOOOORRRRRYYY FOR THE LONGEST MESSAGE EVER!!!!! very sorry. i so apprcate your help so much.
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well, i personally wouldn't send notes and not to offend you, but that seems a little middle schoolish. i would [and i know this would be hard or embarassing] but i would see if he would want to go get some pizza or go see a movie sometime and see how he reacts to the whole scene and base your choices off of that. if you have anymore questions, send me them to my inbox and i'll answer in more depth for you. hhopefully i helped. =]
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Thank you, i did infact give him lil hints, idk if he got them but what hints should i give him? like u think i should tell him it would be like gah idk i'm thinking of writing a note to him and giving it to him but wat would u do if u were in my situation? write back to me as soon as u get this thanx.
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