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How do you know when someone doesn't want to talk to you? How can you tell that someone wants to say something but they don't because they're scared of what you might say or think. How can you help someone to just let go?

That has always been relatively easy for me, because I'm super perceptive. Meaning; I can pick up on the things unsaid, not in a creepy way. But I can just tell when somethings wrong when no one says anything, for the longest time I thought everyone could tell, but not everyone can.

Watch the persons body language, their posture, how they speak to you, if they are giving you eye contact, their hand gestures, if they are paying attention to you..

If they have something they want to say but don't because they seem scared or something, just keep a look out at the things I mentioned above, it works for both, if they DONT want to talk to you, their posture will pretty much show it, and if they have something they want to say, but just cant bring themselves to, they may.. start to say something and then hold back, prod them on. Sometimes people just need a little push.

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