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I have a really good guy friend. I like him as more than a friend. He has a girlfriend. Me and him have been hanging out a lot, but the other day I was in a bad mood, and he didn't do anything wrong(actually, he was being amazingly sweet), but I guess I was stressed out about a lot of stuff, and I was tired of watching him be with another girl, so I said some mean things to him, and yet he was still nice, and then I got meaner. Then he kinda ignored me. Now we talked a little, and he says he's nit mad, but he's not talking to me much, and he doesn't seem to care about me like he did. I think he's still mad and I want to make it up to him. A friend thought New Years would be a good time for all of us to get together and have fun again.
Wow. Your story was amazingly ALOT similar to mine, but mine happened a week ago.
I'd say give it some time, he'll come around, yall are still friends, so he's likely to come around when assumingly knows when you're ready to talk to him. Or if he doesn't, go up to him yourself, apologize and explain that you've been just so stressed lately and that you're sorry for taking it out on him and you didn't mean to. Hopefully, he excepts your apology. But if he doesn't still give it some time, he'll come around still.
EXTRA TIP: With your apology maybe, give him a gift. It doesn't have to be expensive at all. Like a food you know he likes lol (I did it) he was so stoked. ALSO: With you liking him and all, maybe you should tell him how you feel. You never know, you know? Don't let words be unspoken. Hope I helped and good luck! & have a Happy New Year :)
(Rating: 5) Hey thanks. He did forgive me. Now I have a new problem. He has a girlfriend and she hates me. I've fought with her before, because she doesn't like me hanging out with him. She got really really mad that I invited him over for New Year's, so now no one is coming. I really wish he could come, but I don't think he will with his girlfriend so upset. She usually gets mad, but we fix it, but this time, she ended our own friendship.