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i just have a general question,
if you like someone, and they acted out of their character or hurt you in some verbal way-(nothing harsh/racially offensive), would you stop liking them or would your feelings persist?
this is stupid question but it's just i've noticed how some let go very easily once they are slightly doubtful and others strongly believe in forgiving, what's the norm?

For me, if they are a friend, of course I will forgive them!
If its a boy that I suddenly have a crush on, but then they do something weird, like say something mean to me, I do stop liking them. Because its a side I've never seen of them, and I dont find it to be a good characteristic for someone to have. Atleast in my opinion, I don't want someone who would make me feel out of place.. if that makes sense you know? BUT! I forgot to mention.. only if its over and over again, that it happens. I mean I forgive very easily, because it is my nature, depending on what was said/done. But yup :)

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