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About 3 weeks ago i had a fling with this guy named cody(i don't know his last name) and now he goes to my school. (I'm bisexual and engaged to a girl.) He even has classes with my girlfriend, but for some reason he won't talk to me. I mean he will talk to my girlfriend and he will talk to my other friend who was with me the night i slept with him. I don't understand why he won't talk to me. Before we has sex we even said that it was nothing special and that neither one of us wanted a relationship from it. (I had a carwreck that night and just wanted comfort) but now he won't talk to me. Why will he not talk to me? Please help me! We were fine the morning after, so why won't he talk to me now? Sorry so long!
~~~HBA~~~
The only way to know for sure would be to ask. But, to be honest, there are tons of reasons why he may not want to talk to you. First of all, you both technically cheated on your significant others. Secondly, he had sex with a guy, so he could be now questioning his sexual identity. It's also possible that the sex meant more to him than he thought it would. By not talking to you, he could be either avoiding you so he doesn't draw attention to the two of you together, so he can forget what happened, or so he won't have to worry about how he acts around you. He may just not know what to say, or how to think about you after the event. Or it could be none of the above things. Once again, you'd have to break the ice to know for sure.
(Rating: 5) btw i'm a girl and engaged to a girl.