My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.
Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.
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ok i moved out of my moms house and in with my aunt and unkle things are usually ook when my unkles gone but when hes around my aunt and unkle feed off eachother and theres alot of tenssion ontop of that they dont give me alot of freedom like today i asked to go down the street to my cousins house and because i was sick 3 weeks ago they said no! so should i move back in with my mom who lets me do whatever i want and get stuck with the house work and takin care of my bratty lil sis and my addorible kid brother or stay with my aunt and unkle and deal with the unfairness and rediculess rules and chore list??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!! (link)
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My advice is take a piece of paper and write down all the things you like about living at home and then all the things you don't like. Then do the same about living with your Aunt and Uncle.
If the good things outweigh the bad living with your own family then stay there. If, on the other hand, you learn that living with your Aunt and Uncle come out on top stay there.
Only you can decide in the long run where you feel more comfortable and only you can make this decision. Base it on facts and you will get a better outcome.
Decide also whether it would be more beneficial to your siblings to stay at home too.
You can make up your own rules to stick to if you decide to live with your Mum. You don't have to do whatever you please all the time. You will be an adult in two years time and will be totally in control of your own life. Good luck.
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thanks thats what i was thinking but wanted an outside oppinon so thank you
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