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Q: Ok i really need help. I've been having a lot of friendship problems as of the last year i guess. End of last year, and beg. of this year. I go to a super big high school and just can't find the right type of people to be friends with/ I've been making more friends and stuff, but I don't really feel like I have one of those super close together til the end group of friends. I had to leave my old group of friends because i couldn't take the drama and now im making better friends. But im still having some problems with the old friends and makign new ones. I just feel like there arent friends there for me. Not like what i want or anything. I dont know im bery confused but anyway my question is my parents know about my friendship issues and asked if i would like going to a smaller, private school. they think maybe a smaller school is best. Im pretty outgoing and very nice and fun, and smart too but i dont always act like it haha :D. I know there are still cliques in private schools but would it be better to try over and make friends? Okay im gonna list my question:
-Being in high school would i be able to make new friends and fit in?
-Would it be really hard to adjust?
-What happens if i want to go back to my old school because no one wants to be friends with me?
-Could this happen?
-Should I try going to a private school thats smaller?
-How do I know if people are who they seem because i seem to be bad at this.
-Are the friends I really want and are looking for going to be there? because i feel like i've tried looking for them all over and can't find them at my school.

I know I have a lot of questions and sorry about that. I have learned a lot from these friendships tho and think i could make lots of friends if i got to start again with a clean slate. But i dont know if the friends i really want are there or what! I really want these friends SO badly! But considering its high school i dont know if i would be able to just join there school and make friends and fit in or not. Please help me! If you have ANY thoughts or opinions or anything PLEASE tell me! I want as much advice as i can get and will rate ALL of you who help me! Thank you so so so much in advance!!! :D

Hey,What if you go to that other school and you dont find any "good friends there, are you always going to always to switch schools? i honestly think you shouldnt switch you say that its a big school okay be friends with whoever your friends with sooner and sooner youll be talking alot more going out with eachtother talkin on the phone telling eachother secrets..have you ever heard the saying "my theory is that if you look confident,you can pull off anything even if you dont have a clue what your doing".Trust me And trust in GOD i am so sure that you will get to know them more:D haha if you dont want to take this advice then heres the answers for your questions:

1) yes im sure that you will be social dont worry about it
2)yeah im pretty sure you would know how like i said --confidence--
3)Thats why i was telling you try one more time so that you wont regret moving skools just try and give it more time ..
4)i think its not such a bad idea but aswell like i said try once more:D:D
5)well we dont know really if they are goin to be there but im sure you will find a really good friend you can do stuff with just get closer and funner!

-hope i helped haha

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Rating: 5

Thanks! I have been praying to God and 1 thing is what if the friends he wants to bring to me are there? IDK im veeery good with what if's! haha and thanks again