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ok so the other night i got my kiss. but he wasnt my boyfriend or anything and still isnt.
but anyways he frenched me and i think i totally messed up bc i wasnt readyy. but i have no idea what i did so that doesnt help.but if that happens again i want to know what im doing and kiss the right way.
help?
thankss.
Well first of all do you enjoy being kissed by people who aren't your boyfriend, and who won't be? I'm not sure there is any way you can "mess up" a kiss. Sure, the first time is usually awkward, but hopefully it's not really how skilled you are that matters, but the fact that you are sharing the experience of being kissed by someone you (hopefully) care about. Don't beat yourself up over if your kiss was good enough or not. It likely won't matter to the guy, unless he is looking for commitment. And if the guy is looking for commitment, it's most likely the two of you figuring out how to kiss together - everyone kisses a little differently.
But anyway, to answer your actual question, kissing, the act itself, isn't too hard once you have gotten used to it. Basically, you lean in the opposite direction of the person and slightly into them, parting your lips a bit (or as much as they part their lips). Then, close gently, puckering slightly. If the other person puts his tongue in your mouth, or if you decide to do so, open your mouth a little wider and stick out your tongue slightly to touch the other person's. The rest sortof varies from kiss to kiss, and you can look on google for webpages entirely devoted to kissing for more information.
Now see? Kissing is the easy part. The hard part is finding a guy worthy enough of your kiss.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much