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Q: 13/f
I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it because the natural male instince to run when a woman says she loves a guy?
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I'm honestly tired of the answers that are against internet relationships.
I don't encourage them, but seriously, this is ridiculous. If you know the person by Phone, email, web-camera, and so on, theres really no reason you shouldn't talk to someone. The important thing is that when you decide you're in love over the net, you might be setting yourself up for major heart-break because you honestly don't know what the person is doing. So you pretty much have to be trusting or you will fall apart and ON TOP OF THAT- If you ever decide to meet someone, make an adult or someone else go with you.
Anyway, the point is that your age doesn't have much to do with this. Being thirteen doesn't mean you can't feel love. The truth is that it's not you. This guy is probably not feeling like any of this is real since it's online. But what you should do is accept that he's moving on and yes it will hurt you a lot to go on, but you have to. For someone better. I promise that this will all get better no matter how much it hurts:(
-TheTeenGirl
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thank you, u gave the best advice i could ever get.but i have had only two loves, the 1st one im not quite over and the second one is right now, he the guy in the question. i really dont give out my heart like paper.......its the reason why its so hard to let go.
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bio
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82424
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