My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.
Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.
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I had sex with this one kid this weekend. and yeah it was good and everything but He said that he liked me and I just dont want a realtionship and anyways on of my friends liked him for about 5 years even tho she said she was over him and said she didnt care i was drunk so yeah. And well I we hung out all weekend. And it was funn. And well he found out i didnt like him or got told i dont. But I feel so horriable becuase I did lead him on alot and I know there is this plan that this other girl is gunna lead him on and I feel horriable about what i did to him. But I just really dont know I can not stop thinking about him he was so sweet and amazing. and well We do go to the same school he just a year younger then me. And on top of it he is my x's best friend. I just really dont know what to do. becuase I never see him or talk to him becuase we just started talking at the party that we hooked up at. I just dont know what to do? (link)
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I can sense your guilt in all this and quite frankly, as you said, you did lead him on and use him a bit. I think that you need to apologise to him somehow, by either ringing him, talking face to face or writing a note. However difficult it might be to get to see him, you need to make the effort. Tell him what you feel about the situation and ask that you can continue to remain friends if he so wishes. Learn from this experience and only then will you start to feel better and less guilty about it. I suggest you also watch how much you drink because you may end up in a situation far worse than this one, with someone who would care very little about you or the consequences. Take care.
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Hey thanx for the advice and yeah I know I really should its dumb. I know what you mean I have been there. Thanx tho Im am hopefully gunna see him really soon because I personly think its really low any other way. Thanks again!
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