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ok when i was in third grade i went to a babysitting service my closest friends there were a guy and a girl the guy was always sweet and a good gentleman even though he was two grades higher than me now i am much older and i found someone ive never talked to before but whenever i see him i get weak and alot of butterflies well i found out that the guy i have a crush on is two grades higher than me and was my close guy friends best friend when i was in third grade i really want to talk to him but im always too nervouse and anyway ive never talked to him before so i dont want to leave him a note his locker is 9 spaces away from mine and even if i did want to talk to him id never have a chance im busy in between classes and i hardly see him before school we will be in atleast one afterschool activity together along with one of my good friends (a senior) but that hasn't started yet and i dont know when ill be able to talk to him wat on earth should i do?
Add him to some sort of online thing - myspace, facebook, whatever. Or get his email. Online convos are great because you can randomly start and stop them anytime without any pressure because most people online are just bored and waiting for someone to talk to anyway. No one ever thinks twice about it. Also, maybe when you have afterschool activities with him and some of your friends, occasionally drift over to say hi. Not necessarily too much, or your friend may think that you're ditching him or something, but it doesn't mean you can't talk to him at all. You could even get the two of them involved in conversation - your guy friend and your crush, though if they were close in third grade they may not still know each other well in the present. Also, if his locker is so close, you will see him sometimes. What's the harm in a simple hi or a casual conversation? Maybe something like, you can't believe that summer's over, or wait, didn't you know my close guy friend in grade three? You can tease him a little, even flirt a bit, though notes in lockers might not be the best way to go since they can be a little forward.
Once you've gotten to know this guy a little better you'll be able to tell more if he's more the kind of guy who leaves you starstruck or someone you would ask out. When you're ready, you could always ask him casually to do something with you, and maybe a few other friends.
(Rating: 5) thanx but me and my guy friend are friendsa anymore we havent talked scince i was in third grade scince ive changed some much over the years he doesn't even know who i am