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okay so this might be a bit long, but ill try to make it as short as possible. i met the most amazing boy ever back in june and we were kinda dating or w/e for a month or so and we hung out last friday. i was talking to him on the phone sunday and he said he meant to ask me out but he got nervous even though he knows what im going to say. im 16 and hes 18 but school-wise hes only a grade ahead of me. anyways, he got in a fight with his dad and his dad took his cellphone from him and turned it off and like basically banned him from the computer. i havent talked to him since monday and i havent gotten a text from him in 2 days. im not worried that he doesnt like me anymore or anything silly like that but i dont know how long this is going to last. i dont have any means of communication with him at all and its driving me completely looney. he means the world to me, im completely and totally in love with him. I just need idea's on how to stay strong through this. Hes the most amazing boy ever and i dont want to lose him. i dont want him to move back to cali with his mom and leave texas. that would absolutely kill me. i really need some guidance. thankyou so much!
Do you know if he's grounded or not? If he isn't you could try calling his house, or getting together with him.
IF he's off limits for now just try to distract yourself. You know, call a few friends and you can all hang out together. Go shopping, go running, paint something, answer a few questions on this site. Of course you're going looney if you have nothing to distract you!
How long it will last - I doubt it will last a really long time since if worse comes to worse school will be starting and he'll have to use a computer for school anyway. And since they are paying for his cell phone, it wouldn't really make sense if they took it away from him completely; I mean, the main reason parents give their kids cell phones to begin with is to know where they are at all times.
If it does go on forever, you could create some date place and time where you always meet, once a week or so, and that way you'll know that whatever comes between you you'll always have that time to catch up with each other and spend time together.
Him moving to texas is huge and you should probably think about that when it comes, especially since you don't even know it will happen. It seems like you tend to worry a lot about things that are already happening enough for you to add this to your train of thought. If he does move away, of course it will be hard for you. You'll have to seriously think about how much you do love him and how much he loves you, and think about if you could have a long distance relationship or if you should break it off and forget about him completely. But seriously, for now, go out, have some fun, stop thinking about missing him or what could happen. You have a few days of summer left, might as well enjoy them to the fullest.
(Rating: 5) thankyou so much
this definately made me feel better!