phatdopelove's advice column

hokayy.
here goes.
i like a guy.
everyone tells me i shouldnt.
cause hes a major player.
but he understands me like no other.
ive hung out w/ him a couple times.
it was hella fun.
my closest friends say go for it.
everyone else says no.
but next time i see him.
im gonna tell him how i feel.
i get mixed signals though.
now hes no virgin.
hes gonna be 15 in a couple days.
i turn 14 in january.
:D
i just dont know.
help?

Well thats your clue that he's already gonna be not so great boyfriend:

HE'S A MAJOR PLAYER.

If you've heard that most likely it is true.
He may understand you and stuff like that but
it'd be safe for you to keep him as a friend.
He could be a really good friend for you,but not as a boyfriend. These "mixed" signs need to be ignored, if he really likes you he'd be the first to initiate things, I don't think he would be shy cause keyword: MAJOR PLAYER. Let him be the first to intiate things, then you'll know if he really likes you.

Also, think about this, if you know hes not a virgin then he's more than likely not going to take things slow with you when you're alone with him and you also don't know how many girls hes been with or who so look at it from this perspective.

I'd tell you to follow your heart, but sometimes when you follow your heart, your mind is blinded into thinking things that are right when they really aren't.

Take him as a really good friend, you love to hang out with. Hope things work out for the best.

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