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Age: 18
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ok so i got off work the other day and was waitin for a ride home.
i ran into this guy and we hit it off pretty good we talked for awhile and exchanged numbers.
we have been talking alot on the phone lately and he keeps saying how he wants me to be his gf but i tell him im not sure
i mean i like him alot but he is 18 and im 14
is that a big enough difference to not date him?
i mean ive dated older guys forever but its illegal since he is 18 not like we'd get in trouble but just the thought. but still i like him alot
ahh
someone help
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Boys, boys, boys. They're a mess. Here's what i say-
Stay friends. like everyone else was saying, you guys are on different levels because of the age difference. 4 years might not seem like a big deal but trust me on this, boys minds have way different thoughts. So you may be thinking it's just a fun relationship when he may be thinking he wants more. If he likes you as much as he says he does, then i think he would respect your decision if you just wanted to stay friends. And who knows, maybe if you guys are friends long enough and understand where youre both coming from, you could really hit it off :)


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