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Well, there's this girl that I REALLY like, but like I can't talk to her because I'm too nervous. I kinda broke up with my girlfriend for this girl. I think she knows I like her, because my ex-girlfriend was friends with the girl that I like. So now, I don't know if I can talk to her. Me and her hung out before at the mall, we had a blast, but I can't stand for a girl to say she doesn't like me when I like her. Advice for talking to her?

Thanks in advance.

Well if she likes you you don't have to worry about it, you'll only know if you ask,just ask it wouldn't hurt but she maybe kinda of thrown off cause she knew you were dating her friend ,most girls don't really like that kind of thing but if she likes you then so be it. Start off by saying hey, hows it going and then have your regular convo. Talk about things you normally would talk about then carefully bring up the question to her,ask her if she likes you ( I say talking before bringing it up cause it can startle her if you just go right to the question) Do you ever think we could be more than friends? And if she doesn't like you just be appreciative that she is your friend, its better than not having her as a friend at all, and that would really hurt. Best of luck to you :)

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(Rating: 5) Sweet :] Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

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