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I really need to start taking my own advice.

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Ok. so last year (or the year before i guess) I really really liked this guy. I mean, he was just my idea of an angel. He was sweet,funny, cute and smart. Well, he found I liked him, and I found out that he wasn't so sweet. He completely flipped, and I was heartbroken. I told people I didn't care because it softened the reality, but It took me a long time to get over that.
Well, a couple of days ago I met this AMAZING guy. He's funny, smart, he loves music as much as I do, he's adorable, and he is really really sweet.. Well, I just met him and I fell hard, and a lot of people have told me that we'd be cute together and blah blah blah. I find it kind of hard to believe that I like him as much as I do because we just met, but thats just my logic talking, but when I see him, or just think about him, my heart goes crazy and I can't help but smile.
I really like this guy, but I guess I'm just afraid of getting hurt again.
I don't really know how to word my question, but if you know what I mean, advice would be greatly appreciated. =]

Hey there :)
Try and just be his friend for a while. When you get very comfortable around him, kick it up a notch and try flirting! You know, the classic hugs goodbye, casual touches of the arm, laughing at his jokes, hanging out, the works. See if he flirts back. My test to see if a guy is interested .. smile. Smile at him from across the room, if you get an eager smile back; its a yes!

And don't worry about getting hurt. The way I think of it is that if you get hurt in the end, it only makes you stronger. Try to relax and enjoy your young age. Love hard, live easy.

Good Luck

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