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theres a guy i like in my church group and we have church sleep overs (for our youth group only) and the leaders always fall asleep really fast and we go into the sanctuary and make out (and the other people in the group just stay downstairs cus they're watchi ng a movie) and i absolutely love him he's the perfect guy with like glasses and not popular but when you take them off u see a really handsome face with gorgeous eyes and i'm not a popular girl so this is absolutely awesome for me. after like 15-20 mins we go downstairs and we get in our own sleeping bags but i woke up one morning and we were still in our sleeping bags but like right up against eachother like literally i woke up against his cheast and i would really really really like to know if it would be a bad idea to do any romantic things with my guy because we're in church but isnt it like the perfect place? lol. No but he's sooo awesome and sweet and i just dont want to wake up like naked and be embarrased. he respects me so its not like he'd rape me or take advatage of me. i just want to know whether you guys think it's bad to express my love for him in a church because you never know...ahg i don't know please any advice to help clear my mind would be greatly appreciate. Thanks. o by the way, im 14/f.

You could always hang out with him outside of church or church camp. Its cute that you two met there and everything but I hope he's not like the only reason you go and the only reason you want to go is so...you can make out with him. You should want to go and build your relationship with God. But anyways, you should try and and out with him outside of church camp. I wouldn't go any farther than you two have gone while you're in church. Make plans with him outside and see where you two end up!

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(Rating: 5) yes, we both are pretty religious and that's why i wanted to ask whether it was a good idea to go any farther because we still want to respect God and the church. Thanks for your answer!

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