duudee_advicer's advice column

i am not sure this category fits, but its the best i could choose..sorry

okay..so im a 15/f...almost 16 in october..

i have always lacked self-confidence, and i think i am really ugly and fat..but everyone always tells me im hott, but i honestly dont get it. when i look in the mirror i hate what i see..
i dont know if me being REALLY fat last year has anything to do with it. i lost over 40 pounds, but i still feel fat, even though i am in the healthy weight range, and i also have double d's, if that has any effect.

so i was wondering what i could do to make myself feel better? should i lose more weight? or what? any advice helps, and please be honest! thanks!

here is my myspace, if you wanted to see a picture of me..
myspace.com/THISisWHYimHOTTdoubleD

I'm going to be honest with you, not that I would normally lie anyways. Usually I'm very open minded to questions, but questions like these anger me. I'll try my best to answer your question fairly.

1. I hope you're not starving for attention. Asking people on an advice sight what they think of you is not going to build your confidence. Most people are just trying to be polite.

2. Focus on your positives, obviously you have big boobs; you've mentioned it alot. So, be proud of those. Be proud of your weight loss. Don't focus on the negatives.

Now I'm not going to tell you how beautiful you are, and I'm not going to point out any flaws either. This is an advice sight, not an opinion column. Stop listening to what people think of you, focus on yourself and your own thoughts. Dress as you like, act as you like. Try new things and push yourself out of your comfort zone to increase your confidence. If you still feel you are unhealthy and fat, exercise and eat better. Just don't go to extremes to lose the weight.

I hope my honesty won't affect your approval of my answer.
Good Luck

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(Rating: 5) i wanted honesty..so thank you for that!
thanks for the advice!=)

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